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Preparation
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Make sure you and your partner have agreed on boundaries and a safe word.
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Choose a comfortable, private space.
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Hold the whip by its handle firmly with a relaxed wrist.
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Start Gently
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Begin with light strokes on fleshy areas such as the thighs, buttocks, or back.
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Use a soft flicking motion rather than hard swings, especially if you are a beginner.
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Experiment with Sensations
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Try trailing the whip across the skin slowly to build anticipation.
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Alternate between light flicks and gentle teasing strokes.
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Control & Distance
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Keep a comfortable distance to avoid hitting unintended areas.
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Practice aiming on a pillow first if you’re new to handling a whip.
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Communication
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Regularly check in with your partner to ensure they’re comfortable and enjoying the experience.
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Respect limits at all times.
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Aftercare
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Once play is over, offer gentle massage, cuddling, or soothing lotion to calm the skin.
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Clean and store the whip in a dry place to maintain the leather.
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