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Preparation
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Choose a comfortable, private space.
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Agree on safe words or signals with your partner before starting (e.g., "yellow" = slow down, "red" = stop).
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Test the flogger on your own arm or thigh first to understand the weight and intensity.
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Starting Play
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Hold the black and green handle firmly for better grip and control.
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Begin with light strokes on soft areas like the back, buttocks, or thighs.
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Swing from the wrist, not the elbow, to maintain control.
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Building Intensity
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Gradually increase pressure if your partner is comfortable.
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Alternate between soft caresses with the leather tails and firmer strikes to create contrast.
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Mix rhythm and speed for variety.
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During Play
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Check in with your partner often.
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Avoid sensitive areas like the face, neck, spine, and joints.
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Aim for fleshy, muscular areas to keep it safe and pleasurable.
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Aftercare
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After play, offer comfort: cuddles, soothing touch, or lotion on the skin.
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Clean the flogger by wiping the leather tails with a slightly damp cloth and let it air dry.
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